Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Confused
Last day my ex called me and I recently stop talking her and firstly I didn’t pick call but after when I call back she told me I’m not talking with her very properly and try to make me guilty and we talked little more and than she said she is busy now and talk later ( she cheats me and previously she already ignore me plenty of times or lie to me that she is busy but actually she didn’t ) and later I call her and she didn’t answer my call I did three times because I really need something to her specially my books so she msg me at 11 and told me she was busy at that times but I doubt it and I just ask her to meet so at least we clear our situations but she made some excuse and later told me it is not possible and told that she is sleepy now I don’t know why she did these things sometimes I genuinely wanted to believe her but one thing I know about her that if she wanted to do something she never hesitate or give excuse but why she always comes out of blue and try to show she care about me and then just after that she just disappeared like she was some kind of ghost so tell me guys what I do because I really feel I love her but I also feel she don’t because for her im just a option so tell me guys what to do give any suggestions
Sanket @sanket
One simple thing my friend, we males are really damn poor with emotions. Once hurt, tough to recover. I do understand, have faced such ignorance behaviour.
Feelings are something that doesn’t just go away by a snapping a finger. Understand that things are balancing out - you felt pleasure earlier, its time for pain now. No no am not scaring you but harsh truth. Am dealing with a similar problem.
Girls get lots of opportunities to be happy. They get so much of exposure with mere efforts. It’s easier for them to move on. Accept the fact that they lie too much, it’s their natural tendency. They won’t say directly that they do not want talk. Put some efforts, think clearly, ask for her time, and then put all your feelings out.
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Thanks for your kind suggestions it is really hard to deal with it whenever I tried to move she came back and then again go back like ghost and it is really difficult to meet with her she is really good with excuses and also I know she is ignorant and I think it is better to move on and I will tried to talk her straight and clear things and create some boundaries let’s see what happens
Sanket @sanket
When you say “she comes back and disappears”, by this do you mean that she comes again wants your attention and stuff?
If yes then it very clear she just parks herself in your court whenever she feels hurt or she needs a distraction. Please tell her that stop doing this, it hurts your sentiments.
If she is moving on then ask her to help you move on. Exes can be sometimes the best help to move on
Sanket @sanket
And hey @crazyguy3495, here to listen to you out on this. Ping on this thread and we can try to plan out things for you.
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Tell me how can I negotiated this things because I really need something and I really appreciate if you help me
Sanket @sanket
We can, let’s get a more private space?
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Fb or insta where you wanted to talk ??
Sanket @sanket
Do you use skype? Uhh not active on any platform. Or else we can setup a zoom room
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Not active on skype actually try to on zoom if it is comfortable there
Sanket @sanket
we can zoom, whats your suitable time? Evening around 7.30?
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
It is fine actually 7:30 it is actually good and see you that time
Sanket @sanket
Cool, will ping you here and will give you the room’s id here itself
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Okay see you there
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Meeting passcode is incorrect
Sanket @sanket
umm waited for almost 18 mins
thought you are not gonna show up. No prob we will connect tomorrow. Same time?
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Yup same time and I tried so much but everytime I put code it shows me incorrect passcode and I waited untill 8 so let’s do it tomorrow I think before that if we text somewhere each other because it is better if stay in touch before that time
Sanket @sanket
Only active on skype that too because of office
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
I don’t know about skype maybe google meet or zoom ??
Sanket @sanket
Am so sorry, having too much of workload today, did some embarrassing mistakes in the morning, my mind was disturbed. Can we schedule for tomorrow, please?
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Anytime mate whenever you feel okay and ready I’m here and just message me so don’t worry
Sanket @sanket
we are meeting right?
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Yup if you are free ??
Sanket @sanket
8:00pm?
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Alright and where ?? Zoom ??
Sanket @sanket
96123797350 - L2bhz9
Sanket @sanket
yes zoom
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Okay wait I will there
Sanket @sanket
Am already in the zoom room
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Send me link or code on Google meet ??
Sanket @sanket
Umm wait
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Okay send me link or code
Sanket @sanket
Use this https://zoom.us/j/96123797350?pwd=eFNSb0IwQzhqUDZaNVgxRkk2N2plUT09