can someone please tell me how to not feel lonely ? I’m surrounded by the most loving family I could ever ask for and yet I feel lonely as hell and feel guilty for the same .And I always find myself getting attracted to people who are not really interested in me. Or I go way out of the way and ruin things altogether.
As per me the answer is self love, spend time in reading or writing or do what makes you happy…read books which help you to realise your worth, which promotes self love… accepting yourself, focusing on yourself should be yours first priority…
Write something postive at the start of everyday, and write something postive at the end of every day… exercise do yoga… but your focus should be on present not on the past neither on the future…last but not least self love doesn’t happen overnight it takes time sometimes you will feels like to give up…but never give up on yourself yeah it’s messy sometimes but its worth it
Hey
Maybe u r choosing wrong person. There are people who sre looking for friends and are friendly. So don’t think you are bad or lonely. You are just targeting wrong people.
I am here. If u want to talk.
U r not lonely i am here for you.
i feel the same. as hard as it is maybe just try and let go of the guilt. idk how to do that. but do know that if you do something repetitively it will inevitably sink in, like telling yourself you’re not wronging your family just because you feel alone.
I notice that I feel lonely around my family, that loves me more than anything, mainly because I put blocks in my way. I don’t share all my feelings or go to them for advice. I feel guilty, for not being able to feel like im not alone when im with them, for not being able to feel like I can trust them to make me feel happy inside, like im neglecting their love or something. maybe do one thing a day or once a week even out of your comfort zone with your family, something you find yourself looking for from those people who aren’t actually interested. maybe it can make yourself feel a bit less alone with them, maybe that will ease some guilt naturally.
i struggle with all of what you wrote so i really don’t know… but be honest to yourself. always.
if you want to talk, im always here
