Can anyone please tell me how to handle an annoying colleague? I am a developer and the colleague is a tester… and to this person whatever I do is wrong. Like we have faced a particular issue before and solved it out and we are seeing the same thing again and still, he will be saying that y is the developer so lousy… I do accept all my mistakes but, y does he get so annoying.
I think you need to talk to your colleague about this…
One thing I wanna say, “Perception is reality.”
Our thoughts create our life. Be positive, don’t ruin your mental peace. And peace comes from within. It’s not our responsibility to make everyone happy. Our responsibility is to make ourselves happy. So why waste so much energy on hating someone that doesn’t deserve it.
And sometimes it’s all in our head.
Just imagine every time that you spend your energy hating that person or focusing on his negative side, what would have happened if have thought about your life, your mental health, your wellness, your goals, your ambitions?
Yeah you should definitely talk to him about his remarks. Also in difficult situations remember to count to ten so you don’t lose control. Don’t let him affect you if you know and accept your mistakes, if he continues to irrationally bug you just know it’s not your problem it’s his.
