Breakup
A bit more than 19 days ago I had a breakup and it hurts so bad, and now he is with someone else. Someone irl. Not one day have I felt fine. I have self-harmed so much and I can’t take it. I only want him. I only want him back. I am so so so sad.
Please don’t harm yourself! You do not need him to be your happiness. Please seek help!
U need to understand within 19 days he got a new girl he is not worth for a beautiful person like u and baby gather yourself he is not the right one for u even if he gets back to u he may break your heart again ,love yourself u r more important than anyone else in this world
in a delicate situation like this, I would strongly advise you to not listen to other people on Now&Me except for those asking you to get professional help. Anyone who is even slightly spiteful over the guy who broke up with you is wrong and hate-filled.
People who say things like “oh- you’re beautiful, leave him” and shit like that- that’s not healthy to listen to them.
You have to understand that
a) he has a life as well, and he’s free to do what he wants with his life.
b) you should never harm yourself. ever. especially when you never did anything wrong and you have a future ahead of you.
c) your mental and physical health comes above all. that does not mean that you as a person is more important then everybody. just know that your physical and mental and emotional health comes above all.
d) love is meaningless, you’ll find another eventually. trust me on that.
I would advise you to get professional help. Take up new hobbies and find the joy of learning and living.
Always playing the devils advocate
~Geckotung
