Boys tell me if I am wrong I told one boy who was talking with me I was interested in him that I can’t be his gf because our relationship have no further because my family will never agree with this relationship because of his cast now he is hurt I am hurt to but I can’t give him hopes and I can’t do anything against my family they give me permission to do love marriage but in our cast they are my family if I do something wrong they will disown me I can’t live without them so I tell him that before we enter into relationship or even before he start loving me now he is telling me I am fraud and I do wrong with him I am hurt too did I do wrong? Tell me?
You are being honest and it’s a good thing which you did. You are not wrong in anyway. He probably does not want to accept the fact that you said no for a relationship and now wants to blame you without any reason.
He also have right to get angry and sad I did hurt his feelings but he should understand that this is not that bad then hurting him in the future with false hope and dreams and I am not robot I also feel sad but I have to do right thing for both of us
I can understand both of you are hurt. but you actually did the right thing instead of keeping him hanging or giving false hope.
so sorry you are in this situation! hope you get through this.
take care
Thank you dear I feel little better now just tell me one thing should I stop talking with him because if I continue he will fall more for me
I can’t tell you whether you should stop talking to him. It would totally depend upon both of you, can you both be comfortable being friends? If even one of you is not comfortable then it’ll be difficult for both of you.
Our parents are the most important thing at any cost…because of them we are living…and parents are always our well wishers…initially we may understand them wrong but they know what we need and what we are happy with… this can be understood only after we become a parent…so just respect and listen your parents…they are the only real friends real love everything…
I know that I respect them and love them so much I can’t do anything to hurt them I am sad because I hurt that boy for my family I can never do anything against their wish
Nope actually good about your genuineness…but if you really like something do you fight for it…or will you take suggestions from your family to even fight for what you want?
Fight for what I can’t fight against my heart I love my family right even if I go with that boy I will be always sad
If you are stronger you can fight for both your family and for him too…
I know my family like back of my hand they have too much proud my uncle’s daughter also thought she can fight for her love and family and can change their feelings now they don’t even see her face I can’t live like that
Not everyone’s story is same…
You did right dear. It’s important to tell what you feel, even when there’s no hope of a relationship.
Since you know the relationship won’t work out, don’t get into one.
But if you think he is a person whom you feel a strong connection with, and you have courage that you will fight with your family to keep your love, then go ahead, fall in love with each other and nurture it till the end and beyond.
Sampada F. @sampada_foteda...
Hello! Totally understand what you are going through. I am a peer listener at nowandme. Book a session with me to vent out/talk 🌸
Although I don’t believe in this binding thing I would say you did the right thing. He has his reasons to be mad but that’ll fade with time. And I don’t want to go into the whole religion argument.
