I can relate to it honestly its both
But in the end you love them so much that you let it go anyways :)
I know, I wish I love myself that much atleast. The stuff we put ourselves into.
Yes they can be
:( Can I ask you these? How? why? if yes, why me/us? the first love we encounter is them, if that only looks biased, are we not worthy of equal love?
We sure are worthy of equal love. It’s just they don’t realize it. They have some standards according to which they measure us. When we do everything as they say we will be their FAv if don’t we will be rude.
Parents can sure be biased . if you feel that just talk to them. One time they won’t listen but when you repeaylt it they Will be bound to hear you.
They think they know good for us. But actually they don’t they just want everything according to themselves. But it isn’t right. they gave us birth but that doesn’t mean we are there bond slave. We will do as they say.
Parents have to be always there for there kids. At least that is the one thing that would give their kid a hope that world outside isn’t too bad as people say…
I don’t feel parents r biased its just we have to understand n think from their perspective
U can do this task to find out are they biased … Talk to them about how u feel when they do stuff which makes u think biased … Ask them questions about it like why they are doing this to u … This will lead to three things they might give u a reason why they do that or they will stop doing things that make u feel that way or they will just ignore you… And if they ignore that leads to two things that they are not that open or they are really biased and don’t waana understand it … But in both the cases u win … U understand that u have to love urself more… I understand parents are said to love there kids unconditionally but they are humans too … So forgive them and love urself bcz in the end u will be left with urself.
Loads of love and hugs for u
