Being in a relationship still feels like I am talking to my one sided lover, forgets that I even exist.
I have question for some men.
You chase that one girl and then fuck it !!??
Where effort ?? Are we object or something ??

Same goes for some women. But I want answer from men.

Yea i am saying chase and then leave her like she is some object... :) 

Utna hi chase karo jisse wo tumhaari respect kare. Of you are a time pass ka option, bhul jaao and move on 

Just have firm belief in thought that this too shall pass. You need to give a reminder every now and then to yourself that you are strong and this will not break you down. 🤝

Few years down the line, you might not even remember all of this. 

3am Thoughts

After a few weeks of extreme pain and sadness, I somehow managed to calm myself down. And now, I am feeling so numb, that there is no real joy in anything. Once the moment is gone, it is gone. I feel like if I even try to recapture that moment in my mind, it will hurt me. My body was shutting down due to the sadness and heartbreak I was going through. For now, it feels OK. But I can't shake the feeling that my heart will be broken again and no one truly cares. Even the one I trusted and loved for so long. 

Depression

For the past two years I’ve been able to keep my weight stable, opposed to the very prominent unnatural upward trend for almost all of my life. I’ve seen great results from controlling diet and excel use in the past, but even with results I never have enough willpower to actually control my eating gap it’s for an extended amount of time. If anyone has similar experiences and has made it through them, is there anything I can to to battle this?

Physical Health

My Best friend Greatest advice to me was "In whatever you do, always respect your elders no matter how much Ego you got, Never lost you humanity" and from that time i started respecting, showing my manners to my Parents to to any other older even tho I'm kind of a arrogant guy to school but that advice somehow Made me change view in Life and i started enjoying it more

Friends

Well there's a guy i had a crush on and i still do. He's really good looking and he's a good human too but it's just that he's not my type. I feel like he knows that i have a crush on him as i have made that obvious by acting shy in front of him and i think he likes me too. We both have not taken any steps yet.... We just talk casually through texts everyday. As I overthink a lot, i was thinking what if he does something like tells me his feelings...... What will I do ???? I don't want to hurt him but i have already given him hints of me having a crush on him and now if i reject him he will be hurt 
And most of all I don't even know if i am ready to be in a relationship. Sometimes I think of ghosting him but again I don't want to hurt him as in the start i was one who has given him so much attention and now ghosting him would really not be a good option.
I don't know if i like him or not because there are Times when i want to be with him and again there are Times when it feels so weird

Crush

i’ve been eating more these past few days, i feel more fat and disgusting.
ima starve for 6days straight b4 winter break is over and we all go back to school, if i mess up and eat, ima have to cut.

Eating Disorder

I don't know if I am Bi, I really have nothing against it but I don't want to like a person of the same gender as mine. I like guys, not girls but there is one girl that sort of caught my attention, she is very pretty I do admit that but I don't know how I feel about her. I don't know if it's because my mom thinks I am lesbian just because I like to wear clothes that aren't tight on my body, 

(let me clear things up, I don't like to wear tight clothes because I am not happy about my body, I am exercising to get the body I want so for meanwhile I will continue to wear baggy clothes) 

and she casually brings it up telling me in a jokingly way that the reason why I don't want to move schools is that there might be a girl that I like.

 (She thinks that because I go to an art school and there are lots of gays, lesbians, and trans students there, and she has nothing against it either but she just doesn't want me to be there anymore.) 

She brings that topic from time to time telling me that she wants grandkids and that I shouldn't come out that way ( It sounds way nicer in Spanish I swear the English translations make it sound mean but it not) she is strict about not having bf at a young age but she has been encouraging me to get one and like I said I don't want to date until I get the body I want.

 Okay let me get back to the topic lol, I think I am starting to get those types of thoughts that I might be bi because my mom is commenting a lot about me liking girls so I guess that could be it, I think it could also be because that girl is really pretty, she is short and has a skinny body, so technically everything I want to be... I started crying at the fact that I might be because I don't want to like girls and please hear me out I promise that I have nothing against it but personally I just don't want to be like that. 

She stares at me too much so I think she hates me or she likes me, I caught her looking at me once, and that's how I noticed her... every time I look in her direction she is staring at me and sometimes she stares for a litter longer and I look away before she does or she instantly looks away. But there was this one time when I looked at her first and she looks at the same time and she doesn't look away she holds eye contact until I feel like I am blushing but when I think of her I feel blank like I feel no emotions for her.
So what do you guys think?? 

Confusion

I am deciding to be better. 
This is my goal for today: Finish 25 questions from Chapter 4
Let's see if I make it. I need this motivation

Motivation

14yr old here,just looking for some healthy coping mechanisms for suicidal thoughts/ideation!!! 

So,over the past 3 and a half years I’ve been feeling extremely isolated from everyone around me,especially at school. Now, I have managed to make a few friends irl, but I’ve only just became friends with them quite recently and I don’t want to drive them away or feel like a burden. I can’t talk to my parents due to them being extremely awful parents,they are terrible at communicating with me and my siblings,they won’t let me talk about my emotions towards them,they think my opinions are always invalid and wrong, they won’t let me wear the things I want to wear (which are not inappropriate btw) and won’t accept me for who I am (a trans boy). They are also really sexist and don’t believe in mental illness or therapy. I obviously can’t get a therapist due to lack of parental consent,and having no money/job. I’ve been trying to cope with my situation as long and as healthy as possible, but nothing really seems to work out well for me. I could really use some help!!! (Also feel welcome to mention any  FREE therapy that does adolescence)

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