Being able to help people as a phsychologist is really nice so if you have anything you would like me to help you with you can share with meπ
Iβm thinking lately too much about life and why here in this earth we have born not in some other universe or solar system.
That is a stage everyone goes through at one point . You should Explore maybe you are intarested in it with scientifical perspective or spirutual
Basically human nature is that sometimes we think extensively , our thoghts can be pleasent or unpleasent but the important thing is the more you avoid it the more you think about it so just face whatever it is and it will reduce your blockage
No what I mean is your thoughts should be in your control but to achieve that you need to face both pleasent and unpleasent thoghts
Look I will have to explain this in detail cause this is a vast topic
One thing which is bothering me right now is that Iβm 25 Years OLD and still donβt have any Job and I havenβt even completed my Graduation yet due to some reasons
And itβs shattering me Day by Day β¦ :)
Everyone has thier pace of life and it is ok if you take time cause even the people in their late thirties are not fully settled
Yes itβs right but our indian society wonβt accept it na β¦
Even my Family is now taunting me β¦
Btw Thanks for you Suggestion Maβam :)
You are welcome and do not worry everyone will support you once you start to settle
Barnali Dave @barnalii
I had a recent breakup and itβs hard to live like this, Iβm having sooo many bad thoughts and my mind is all over it. I also donβt have many friends and I donβt like to use social media now because I donβt wanna see him and feel bad or anything. I just want to have peace and enjoy my life happily but Iβm not able to. I canβt even study and I have exams in 8 days my whole syllabus is pending. Iβm stressed and Iβm just screwed. Donβt give me any advice to just study and forget everything because itβs easy to say and hard to do. But please help me genuinely. I donβt want to talk to anyone, I want to be alone maybe.
Yeah I am not going to tell you to move on because I know it is hard but what you can do is start doing something that you enjoy like reading ,singing for half an hour every day and if you do it propperly you should gain your focus and peace back
Okayy, Iβll try it. But can I reach you and connect to you so that you can help me if needed if this thing doesnβt work?
K sure
I overthink a lot.
About could have been stuff, doing things like meeting new people
Not doing much about these irl. What to doπ₯Ί
Freaking out or panicking is a sign that you are not that confident so all you have to do is build your confidense by just talking to familier people who are not family
Ahh okay. Since Iβm 25 now the feeling of not meeting someone new . Mostly old friends who can get busy is a thing Iβm coping with.
I am sure β¦ no worries time is a natural healer
I feel insecure that at the end of the day I am lonely I have no one to share my success or bad things which happened in the day. And all the days I try to do everything but in the end I just listen from my family also that you messed up this or that. I want to share my anger my happiness with someone but I donβt have anyone to whom I can tell.
Ok you can vent it out in this app no one will judge you
I donβt mind if they judge me or not I just want someone to be their to say ok your day didnβt went good no problem I am here you can talk to me or ohh this good happened tell me I want to listen about that. And also I want to do the same for the other person also.
Oh ok you can tell me for now then if it is ok with you
Hayath Basha @bashabhai
Hi this is basha from hyderabad
Yes spelling of psychologist.
Yeah so sorry it was auto correct
What to do canβt able to focus on anything even the things which i like to do i starts feeling frustrated and irritated without any reason. can you suggest something?
Jatin Khowal @jatinkhowal1...
Pain will stayβ¦ You just have to embrace it and endure it. Itβs a part of your story, your existence and itβs your guiding forceβ¦
It is What I learnt from my breakupβ¦ 3 years ago π₯πΆ
Hope you find it helpful
Bro i know itβs hard but u need to come out of itβ¦
Try these tips to come out of ur situation
Travel to your favorite place
Change ur playlist
Listen to motivational speakers
Workout and embrace life
Love urself first, then love will devlop for other people
Hope u will find someone beautiful in ur life someday