Been in on/off long-distance relationship for 5 years now. Closing the gap between us at the end of the year. We both got so busy with our career that we forgot how much we loved being together in college days. Just been thinking maybe all this was worth for.

Hey you tried your best. If it’s meant to be, it will be. Don’t regret what happened, look forward to the future. Good luck❤️

Closing the gap as in ? You guys are finally going to be in the same town ?

So happy for you though. 5 years is a LOT and so tough to manage. Kudos.

Relationships

What's the biggest challenge you face in a long-distance relationship?

Long Distance Relationship

In a long distance relationship, your love is tested and doubted every day. But despite the distance, you continue to support and stand by each other. Your love remains strong, and that's what makes it truly special. The memories and moments you share together are what keep you going and remind you of the deep connection that exists between you.

Love

I am in an LDR...and I fucking love him...I don't want to ever lose him but the distance is not letting our relationship grow ... I miss him all the time..I don't want to imagine having to leave him only because of circumstances.. I really hope and pray this shitty phase ends and I get to be with him.. otherwise I'm gonna lose myself in a way that's not reversible..

Is long distance really worth it? I mean I love him and he loves me but what if it's a sign from the universe or something that we should be drifted to different cities? Should I go for long distance? Do yall think we can make it work for 5 years?

People always talk about long distance relationship but never talk about long distance friendship. Why?🤔

Confusion

I am not feeling positive at all why the hell long distance relationships are so hard to maintain? 

Long-distance love can be tough, but with some simple tricks, you can keep the spark alive:

1. Look Forward Together: Plan something exciting to keep both of you pumped up—like your next meet-up or dreaming about future adventures. It keeps the excitement going!

2. No Rush to Judge: Don’t jump to conclusions or overthink things. Talk it out instead of assuming the worst. Trust is the name of the game.

3. Talk When You Want: Communication is good, but it shouldn’t feel like a chore. Chat when you both feel like it. Don’t stress if you miss a day or two.

4. Keep Hope Alive: Dream about your future together. Make sure you’re both aiming for the same thing. If your goals match up, you're on the right track.

Keep it simple, stay connected, and enjoy the ride!  #LDR 

Best,
Psychologist Bhavna Pande 

We ended things. Even though we both know that we love each other. He is going to Dubai and I am going to Germany for further studies. We separated our ways but with a promise of being with each other after 5 years. 

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