Apparently, women are divided into two categories by men-
One: whom they fall in love with , spend their nights with, have sex with, share their feelings and everything!
Two: who will do their household chores and take care of him and his parents.
I mean girlfriends can’t be their wives because there is special type of degree for WIFE category girls !
They had fun and every damn shit with their gfs but when it comes to marriage- they say “ i guess, she is not the fit for my family”
I never thought I will be this much disturbed !
I fuckin hate this shit !
Anybody feel the same ? Or it really depends on the person?
Simran @st1199
Hey!
Is this you speaking from your own experience or feel like this happens in general with women?
Before I give my opinion.
A bit from my experience and also I have seen such cases, boys just leaving their GFS because of this. They want to do so much stuff with girls but can’t marry them.
I would love to hear your opinion
Simran @st1199
Okay. Obviously, since you have or your known ones would have faced this issue that you are of such opinion and it’s not your fault because we tend to think what we see is only true.
But, not every guy is like this and it totally depends on how you choose the guy and how did the relations turn into. I personally feel that less communication leads to such disturbances and maybe we don’t make boundaries and then feel bad for whatever happens. And, also people change with time and nothing can be done in that.
Also, it’s not just men but women who do it too. They cheat often now than men do (from what I have heard and read). But again, everything depends from person to person and how they deal with it and how much one cares for the other.
Tanya Singh @dbtanya01
Heyy!!
I think it really depends on person to person like we cannot say that all men think this way. I have seen a lot of men asking their girlfriends to marry them because they want to spend the rest of their life with their S.O. I don’t think it is right to claim that all men just make girlfriends for fun.
There might be some men who out of selfishness make a girlfriend just for fun and then dump her once their purpose is fulfilled. In my opinion, it is very very wrong for a guy to be this selfish and not just a guy, it is wrong when a girl does the same to her boyfriend. This entire practice is selfish.
One thing more, do you wanna talk about the thing that is bothering you. If you want to you can at any time. I mean if there is a reason which has led you to form such an opinion about men or that has disturbed you, you can freely talk about it.
Take Care!😊
Yes you are right, not all men think like this.
I have my relationship for 5 years and the boy’s parents didn’t approve of our marriage because of caste differences. But the guy is seeing everything in a positive way saying that, a girl should be of parent’s choice to avoid future conflicts. I feel as if he just couldn’t believe in me and accept me. Why would he think like that ?
Tanya Singh @dbtanya01
I think he is more of a guy who would want his future wife to be completely accepted by his parents, maybe he doesn’t want to marry someone who is not approved by his parents. There are a lot of people who would choose to marry someone who is approved by their parents and personally even I would go this way.
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
It is not only women there man also suffer this kind of things many women do these things to man and it is common in both gender some peoples are like that they say many things but when time comes they just run away and give some silly excuse or said something that actually never make sense and leave so I met women that leave me after 3 years on very difficult time when I need her and also cheats me so there is people that run away everytime when things get little bit difficult or they explore other options so dear it happens
Yea these things happens !
Thanku for writing 🙏
Much strength to you too 🌟
Sansthita @sansthita
how are you?
Hi, i am good, thank you ❤️
How are you ?
Sansthita @sansthita
I am good. Good to hear that you are fine… It will get better and you my darling, will come out as a stronger individual.
Thank you dear and i wish to.
God bless you 😊
