Any doctor or gym trainer here?
I am 17 and barely got any chest size. Girls of my age got such a goodd cleverage. I feel jealous. I want them. Okay, i am ready to accept that i am insecure ant my body. But this is how it's going. I hv to wear padded bra jst to hv some. This all is jst bc, of the genes i got, but then again it's my mother who don't let me wear those very cute clothes jst bcz of this cup size. It makes me feel nthng, as if i m rspnbl for all this.
Now i am thnkng of joining gym. Will that work?
Or any othr suggestions i could work upon?


I heard that pressing them will help you to increase them.

same babe! but i've just totally accepted it. lots of love to you

Insecurity

Yes I'm fat , but i have a genuine feel for you all , when will this society accept me ☹️ 

Failure

I have been trying really hard to shed weight. And even after that, I still get comments like "dude if you are so strong, try to lift her body weight" or something like "we need help to lift her" and all these people who said mean stuff like this, are the ones who have not seen me before and how much work I have done. 
It hurts a little that no matter what you do and how much you do, you will never be good enough for people. 
So just do you :)

3am Thoughts

How to deal with body shaming ? 

Physical Health

Wanna share something...so I wanted to wear this oversized coat for a long time but didn't because I was insecure that it will look bad on me since I'm skinny...but today I finally gathered the guts and wore it to my work...2 people have complimented my outfit till now..I'm feeling very happy and confident so I even clicked some of my pics which I usually don't do because of my insecurities..so just want to say Don't be insecure..sometimes it's just in our mind..go live your life and do whatever you want..since you only get to live once🌈💜💜

Body image

Being a victim of body shaming is an experience that only another victim can recount. It is sometimes unintentional but more often is implied by certain inconsiderate acts against the person in question. It is generally thought to be against people who are fat, but it is equally meaningful for the people who are thin. Only a victim knows how far reaching its consequences can be. People think it is OK to make fun of people based on their appearances. Someone is black, someone is white, someone is fat someone is thin. What the society does not realise, is that with the means of such petty actsthe person's self esteem completely degrades. They will start hating their own body. The mirror becomes a constant reminder of their personal sufferings, taunting and ridiculing their dowdy figure. People around you will certainly make fun of you and when your clothes will not fit you anymore they will laugh. You will go out in skinny trousers devil laugh at your skinny legs. You will go out for shopping and you will not find your size. The sales girl will laugh behind your back and you will just smile and go on. But your inside will be crumbling the weight of your incessant struggles will shatter the very foundations of your self esteem. You will want to be like those supermodels and those actors with seemingly "perfect" bodies revered by everyone. But your story should not end there. You are more than your body, you are more than your face. Do not let the society tell you otherwise. 

Women Empowerment

Why do aunties keep body shaming me? Like literally, you're not perfect yourself! And why is looking at teenage girls up and down and then commenting on their bodies mandatory?!! Like stfu can we please focus on REAL things. Work on yourself first then tell me that I'm imperfect. God, I hate humans. Everyone should go fuck themselves. 

I see too much pain and toxicity.. Here everybody lives in fools paradise... Different set of standards what they want... Even khud ki shakal baigan jaise ho pr he/she needs good looking face.. I recently show a post some girl mentioned she will date only tall guys.. Alright thats good but why abuse those are of short heights.. Not required.. Keep yout fantasy to yourself..?! Respect others  it doesn't matter how deformative body he has.. God has give same organs like you..! Never disrespect other to defend your manifesto.... Be kind hearted..! Or it will be not be the another day when your good looking partner make your life doom and will come crying..! Before life teaches you its principles.. 

Gratitude

Since childhood I have been compared with my sister, as she is more beautiful and whitesh. I have grown up with that, and now I am so insecure about my own body. I try to fix it everyday, not because I wanting to, but because people have made me think like that I am not beautiful. It is sickening, it is a worst thing you can do to any child. It takes away the confidence, it makes them suffer for their whole life.

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