An year back i had a relationship which was so good but didnt last much...because he kind of ghosted me after a month..then in that case i had a rebound relationship and it was a disaster..i broke up after 6 mnths ..In the previous relationship there wasnt a breakup..we just lost touch..he tried to contact me after one month,he explained his situation..he was in a bad period etc. but i was into this rebound relationship..and i was angry towards him...recently i contacted him again...we still have the connection after this whole year..he sys he wants to correct the mistake..he regrets leaving me ..i am confuesd

Kinda scared bcz of that rebound period...whether this become a rebound

keep your guard but let him have a chance

Relationships

I had busy schedule with my studies from june 2-25  . My boyfriend had no objection at that time for my busy schedule . From june 26-30 I was busy with my cousins because I got to meet one of my favorites cousin who came from Canada and all the cousins were together after a long time . But during this time ,My boyfriend got upset with not contacting with him as normally I do . I was chatting on WhatsApp but it wasn’t enough for him as I was busy with my cousins . He didn’t tell me anything at that time that he is upset with me .Today is july 2 . Now I got time to talk and he is accusing me I haven’t given him update while I was busy having fun with cousins. He was waiting for my reply and I was busy with my cousins . Is this really my fault ? Can’t I have fun on my own? How can I solve this argument ? He is telling his side with cold voice and I am not liking it . I am feeling like he is being controlling in this relationship. I agree I was busy but is it okay to be too much clingy? 

IDK why i feel anxious about what happened last week, as if cheated, i feel guilty i feel like the need to tell him about what has happened but what i forget is that i did it for myself, to make myself feel better , it made me feel worse yaar. i feel like puking. i don't know ab i am accountable to him am i answerable to him? i don't think so i broke up because he did not have time for me. ,he did not see me for who i wanted him to he did not appreciate or feared on losing. me. i still want him to fear losing me and maybe this thing will help in it or maybe it will end the things for good. maybe , this is the push we need to end our stint . i still feel as if he wont take me , he wont take me back but dude who is he to take me back . it is i who should be the one who decides if. ishoud go back or not . the control should be in my hands , it is i who decides that does he deserve to be in my life or not . he should fear losing me bhai. its him ho led me to do this i was never ever this person who goes on to hook up with random guys and. moreover, while i was in it i had him in my mind . couldne take my mind off him . i still fear that if i ever tell him this he, never come back but shouldn't i be the one who makes. acall ? why should i givee him this liberty . ?

Exhausted

I have a boyfriend but I am attracted to another guy...... Today I told my boyfriend everything..... and its not just the guy about whom I told him..... I told him about everything i did in the past one year.... I cried alot and so did he... My heart feels free of guilt but it costed me my relationship.... He broke-up with him.. and i understand that but I lost a good guy today... I am such a horrible person...

Breakup

i keep saying that i am fine 
but deep down i know that i am not fine cause he doesn't make time for me to text 
also he doesn't respond me while i am flirting he just reply no u cann't do that
i dont know what to do 

Boyfriend

how can I make someone text me after we both stopped talking for a reason!
- (he messed up) and I think he's just ashamed to come talk to me but deep down he wants to, I want him to overcome that fear and text me.
SHOULD I MANIFEST IT and how

Confusion

I miss him so much. After being with him for these 2.5 years, I just forgot how to live on my own. I want to tell him how my day was, and then he'll send me a hug like every time. Even though I know I got played, why does my heart want to go back and listen to all his lies, wanting to live a miserable life? Why can't I just erase him from my memories? Why is it so difficult?

Delusion

I was best friends with him before we started to be in a relationship since last year Nov, we moved in together had a great time cooking and cleaning and being a part of each other’s life. Everything happened so quick maybe because we were best friends. 

In feb, he decided to move to a different country ( Spain ) and he left. Long distance was hard. From being a part of his day to day life to him forgetting to talk to me for days, left me feeling hurt. I tried communicating and telling him how I feel but it always ended in a fight, he used to block me on every platform and after a week or two. 

And he would come back again, this happened for multiple times. In the month of March on my birthday he didn’t even call me to wish me ( we were on good terms then ) it hurt me a lot. 

After a week he said he wants to breakup and he can’t do this anymore. He stopped contacting me and replying to me. I was devastated and for a change I went to visit my family who live in a different country after 45 days I came out strong and more focussed on my life 

When I travelled back and resumed my work, he contacted me wanting to have dinner. So I cooked him fav meal and we had a good conversation. And he said I love you and I said it back. I didn’t realise I was still in love I thought I moved on and I was at a happy place but indeed. We started kissing and making out and he said he can’t be in a relationship anymore bc he wants to focus on his career and life right now. Me being a supportive gf I said I would wait for him until he wants a relationship until then we both can focus on our career but he denied he spoke about marrying someone else down the road and having kids and he said I’m being impractical and I’m living in my fantasy world. He said he came to tell a final goodbye to me. And that he was sorry. I was so confused if that’s the case, why would he say I love you and get close to me ? I mean him ghosting me was a clear sign of goodbye why should he meet me and tell that to me in person. He said he wants to be friends but I really can’t and I denied. 

What hurt the most, is eventho he knows that people from my past had called me emotional and sensitive, and he knows how much that crushed me yet, while leaving he said I’m sensitive. 

And now he moved to the UK ( which wasn’t the plan ) but I guess Spain didn’t work out. He is back to ghosting me again. 

Im breaking again and I can’t afford to. From a guys point of view, what just happened? 
And how do I move on from this. 
I work 730 to 1130pm and I have my thesis so I’m super busy but this thought keeps bothering me all day. Any inputs or support will help
 Thanks for reading this post. 

Why every thing is so difficult and messy in life. I've been dating guy since 2months , today he confessed his feelings for me and now I'm doubting everything... I feel he is not in love really he just said it without any actual intentions. I've been Cheated in past badly, so that also making me paranoid to getting in to any situation. I'm Scared . I want him but I am not sure about his feelings , I don't wanna get hurt again now, too tired already 🥺 this feelings sucks. 

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