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Anonymous

am in love and in a relationship with a boy, we both love each other, and we are ready to get married and start a life from 0 together, without anything…

The issue is that the boy is not from my country… He’s from the country I am living in… But both have the same religion and both are like soulmates… The only thing is the language and the country… Other culture…

I am afraid now from telling my parents they are strict parents,they reject to get married to someone they Dont know the family and stuffs like those and I don’t know how they will take this when I will tell them… Am afraid if they reject, and the worst take from me all my things car, phone, pc, tablet, everything…

What should I do? How I should tell them without a instantly rejection? Did someone happened this with them before?

Please help…

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@dsasster

I’m very little to get married. But, I will suggest that you talk to your parents. Tell them that you seek support and you seek their approval. And before this make sure the guy is going to be by your side no matter what. Sit with your parents. Take your time. And tell them that you are really scared about their reaction, ask them to understand, but first thing practical things. They might see your ponts more clearly. Have the guy all by your side. Have plans. Let them see what are you coming from. Convince them. No other choice other than talking to them. I hope you convince them and have a happily ever after.

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Anonymous

Hi, thanks for taking time to reply…

The issue is that am not sure if my parents will let me end what I want to say… And they maybe reject directly without let me talk and sya all what I want to say

I love the guy, I am ready to do anything but don’t want to lose my parents and family, neither loose the guy I love… Am confused

@dsasster

The only way out is you talking to them. Also, making them see that the guy won’t leave your side. I hope everything will be fine for you soon.

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Anonymous

I Wil… I will. I am just looking the best way to do it as I need to do it in the right momento without any issues pray for me to have everything fine and they’ll accept

@dsasster

I hope you they accept. And things soon turn out as you want them to be.

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