Am I the only one who is alone in college…?with no friends and no one to get more help from…I don’t know how to handle these things…I have always been alone in school life as well and never felt so bad about it, but now it’s hurting a lot… Seeing everyone around you having friends/bf/gf and enjoying it…it feels why can’t I…I don’t know what to do… It’s hurting a lot… whenever I share this with my parents or long distance friends they all just suggest to focus on studies…I am focused on studies but far from home this loneliness hurts…I don’t know if it is just with me…I sit alone even in class, the classmate I thought would be my good friend is toxic af…she just uses me and even she slut shamed me…and my roommates are not much open with me…I never felt it this much hurting…I always enjoyed my own company but now I can’t…
Prabhakar M N @mnpsatan13
Join some activity clubs and student committees, that way you’ll atleast make strong acquaintances
Mee also
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Hey!
I totally got you.
Seems like you are a fresher or maybe sophomore, well it does happen with most of us. Life gets tough, no friends, no real people in a place farrr from home, loneliness sneaks in. But never lose yourself in between, it’s important to preserve yourself. And it is okay to live alone than spending time with toxic friends, believe me gonna help you alot.
I’ll suggest you to join some club or activities or anything you are interesting about, you gonna meet people that way, obviously, not everyone is worth it, but who knows?
Again I insist on preserving the qualities you have, because those are the things that makes you unique!
I had somewhat similar life when I started my college. No real people. No genuine friend. Alone in the vast campus.
But now after finishing my 3.5yrs in the college, I have my set of people. Idc what’s going in college, but I care for them. A very small set of friends, who are genuine, helpful, and most importantly cares for me. And amongst them 1 very close friend, aur hum mile pata h kaise? Sharing the same story, Sharing same emotions…
Stay hopeful, and please don’t just focus on studies, college life is meant to develop your personality, not just for grades. Studies are important, but it’s fine even if you are lil bit lenient, just make sure you gain alot of exposure and experience, that’s the whole point of college.
