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Anonymous

Am I getting used??

Bore huye baat ki, khtm.
Rona tha baat ki, khtm.
Smjh nhi aaya kya kre baat ki, khtm.

What about me? Mera kya?
And this is not the first time with me.
Sometimes I feel, ki agr mai bhi, insensitive hota, cold-hearted, bad listener, don’t wanna help others… Toh shyd iss tarah baar baar - baar baar khud ko exploit hote huye toh atleast nhi dekhta…
Atleast koi nhi hota, lekin, pata nahi… Abhi toh people feel comfortable, they vent, they express, lekin, ughh Yaar thode toh Manners rkh skte hai… And the worst is I STILL CARE.
Ab ese hi hai toh kya kre? Batao?

M bht kam logo se baat krta hun, bcz ik I’ll feel pain for everyone and will help no matter what, and will end up exploiting myself…

Khair
Leave me alone.

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Anonymous

Bhaad m jao sab.

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Anonymous

Poor woor toh mtlb bolo yaar… Sunne m accha nhi lgta…
What about, Oh lost soul, or maybe, Oh Kind soul…

But yeah thanks.

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Anonymous

I don’t think so.
People find us comfortable for venting out but they can never be a listener…
So how come that’s our fault.
When we give our 100% …

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Anonymous

So it’s my fault if I’m a nice person?
It’s my fault if I’m feeling pain for them?
It’s my fault if I made them comfortable to vent?

Anonymous

No its not…
Don’t worry but its neither their fault too.
Bcz they never leart to comfort others.
The true person will be found…
Have patience

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Anonymous

Thanks for such a nice comment.

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Anonymous

Its human nature when u feel heavy u expect someone to be there and listen to u even if u don’t expect them to stand through out and help u face everything…
Here we don’t even expect that. But we wish to have someone for us to hear us out…

And thats not an expectation that we force on others.
Thats a wish…
Like if people understand… There was someone for them and if they could be the someone to others then all the prblm. Will be solved.

But people here hardly understand that they should be the someone in others life too…
Its not just take and go…

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Anonymous

Haa…
I agree to that…

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Anonymous

Glad ro know😅

Anonymous

Glad to know

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Anonymous

Noo. I’m not talking about someone I feel attached… Maybe attached, as a friend… But still happens every time

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Anonymous

Hey thats common…
Nothing is our hands.
But if u want ro vent out something i can be a hearing ear to ur words…

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Anonymous

Thanks. But it’s fine. I said about the people I have in my life.
Like I’m feeling hurted, ki I’m getting used. Log baat krte hai just because they want to… And use me for their own benefits, not a genuine connection most of the times…

Anonymous

I know hoe it feels.
Going through it…
But sometimes someone people genuinely care u just have to find them. In ur life

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Anonymous

Yeahh… I wish and I hope.

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Anonymous

Yaar… Tum log kys soch rhe hi idk… Pata nhi ek bht stereotypical way m cheez le jaa rhe ho… I’m not talking about attachment at all.

I said ki bura lagta hai khud ko use hote huye dekhne mai… And pata nhi kya kro, q ki aap care krte ho, not because of attachment exactly, but just because that’s your nature, aap ese hi ho, hun toh hun na! Nhi dekha jyada logo ka dukh, unki problems, bura lgta h genuinely ki life kitni tough h kuch logo ke liye…

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Anonymous

Nahi bann skte aap humesha doctor. Doctor nhi hun mai, insaan hun…

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Anonymous

See that’s the point. Mai already upar likh chuka hun. I just can’t do that yaar…

There was this girl, she was hella toxic for me… I stopped talking to her, q ki meri mental health barbaad ho chuki thi usse baat kr kr ke… Lekin Covid happens, something happened with her, I get to know… Ab Nhi rok skta iss point pr apne aap ko… I talked with her, she felt comfortable, and gradually sab thk ho gya… Lekin kya? I promised myself to never talked to her, but kya kru yaar, jaisi bhi thi, jitni buri thi, dost thi meri… Itna itna bura aur harsh nhi ho skta mai khud pr ya dusre pr.

Anonymous

U won’t understand what the other person is trying to say…
Its better if u stop this…
It might hurt others

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Anonymous

True feelings…
I have felt the same…
But still standing for others even after going through this for a while.
I think that’s what life is…

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Anonymous

More powers to you as well.

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Anonymous

When people come to you to vent … How do you know that they want to vent ?

Because you observe that in their words and expression right ? But maybe you do not let them know they you want to vent too. My mom does this often. She has a very easy looking face and behaviour but inside of her , she has thousands of complaints. One day I told her, if You have a complain, open up and learn to say it straight instead of keeping it inside and feeling bad and at the same time blaming others who may not even be aware because of your easy behaviour. So sometimes it is important to be VOCAL about how you feel since the next person sitting beside you may not get any idea just by looking at your smile. So express.

@nicest_spoon

I am same person like you just like you i have same story and when I need someone to vent my feelings there is no one for me but when they need i am always there why they ignore me when I need them i just don’t learn to say no it’s my biggest problem ever

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Shivay @shivay2595

Heyy are you alright
I’m sorry bro. But duniya ka dastoor yahi hai people with good hearts are always played with and taken for granted.
Kisi ko farak nahi padta how we feel. Bas we should be available for them always. Jab unhe zaroorat ho to we should be there and jab hume zaroorat hai to sab gayab
And yaar dil chota mat karo. Bhagwan sab dekhte and think it like this. Bhagwan ji cannot come to help everyone at once na… So he’s helping others through you. He’s helping this world through your soul

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