Am 43 Single mother. My daughter is 14 now and she has started questions about my sexual partners coming every other day for overnight stays. I can’t leave alone so they come to my place. I am working so I can’t take time out. I find it very hard to continue like this. And Marriage now will only cause further problems for my kid. Am frustrated with this day in day out
Menopause soon…
What sort of judgement is that ? People engage in lovemaking long after menopause.
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Wow that’s great… I thought…libido is less after menopause… Sorry for judgement… I just wrote in flow 😅
But why to engage with multiple partners
Oh. Forgot to take your permission mommy!
Guys is everyone a Judge on this platform
Yrr aap kisike sath bi raho idc, but kid h to galt impression pdega hi…ap humse Jada mature ho.
Either find one rite partner who wants to live with u
Obviously she will ask If she will see a new guy everyday, also she is at this age she might have an idea of what’s going on.
Please explain her yourself otherwise she might hate you
Although it’s your choice but still your daughter will question you, she’s a teenager too. Please have a conversation with her and maybe tell her what’s going on
Thanks !
Thanks for understanding it 🙏 it’s tough !
Rahul @iamrklahari
Tell your daughter you are dating him.
Really you are not thinking about her situation at this age when you are doing this daily… You don’t explain her tell any of your best friend to explain … Please don’t introduce any of your boyfriends to your daughter… It might lead to another problem… Try to change your daily routine change
Who are you to judge
Its not judging you… Just saying you… The problem is the way people understand… Why you are not thinking about your daughter that is the problem
Fyi I am not the person who asked the question. I am just telling you it’s bad to judge people sitting behind a screen. She is already going through a lot. And she might also feel guilty. Don’t spoil things for her. If you can’t help please don’t make things worse.
Oops. I think communication problem… . I suggested you to change your daily life …any ways it’s your wish… 🙏
No need to tell her anything. Maybe she already knows. BUT I would avoid bringing them at home for overnight stays (safety concerns)
It’s not that I pick them off the street judge Spencer. These are people who go through list of checks and verification before any engagement. Thanks anyway
I’m worried about your daughter not you,you never know what’s going inside someone’s mind.i would never allow any Man for overnight stays.
Idk what’s wrong with everyone here. Why are they judging on THIS platform?? As if it was not meant to be a non-judgment-zone. So coming back to your question, Yes your child will ask questions about them because at that age, we are not familiar with this concept. Even I wasn’t and I am sure even you weren’t. So you just have to talk to her and let her know that there are different aspects of dating as well. It can be casual, it can be with the person of the same sex as well. And tell her that there’s a very big world out there, waiting for her. She will meet all kinds of people. So she should be ready to face everyone and everything that comes her way. If you talk to her about it. You don’t have to go in detail but you can tell her that you have a lot of “friends” that you meet and hang out with. As you don’t have the energy (or use any excuse) to have a serious relationship at the moment. She will definitely understand. The more you ignore her questions, the more curious she’ll grow. I hope it helps ma’am.
Thanks 🙏 Thanks a lot ! Just for understanding it the way it is. God bless you !
I know you’ll get through this well and good🫂 Enjoy your life to the fullest ma’am, these people will never stop complaining, we can’t help it. All the best. Have a beautiful life ahead.
Just be your daughter’s bestfriend 🤝you’ll do great
Okay Judge Spencer!
Joy @joyforlife
I can understand your situation. For a single mother guys are always judgemental. I think first of all you should start going to places to your sexual partners. It’s obvious that your girl has started asking questions.
I would suggest don’t make this image in front of her, you will regret later for lifetime. I can understand you also have emotions or sexual needs but you are a mother too. Take care of this first. Sometimes sacrifices are required to build our child’s characters. Don’t make your relationship worst.
And sorry to say, you should also keep an eye on your partner’s behaviour about your child. There are guys who will just come close to you so that they can have access to her as well, child sexual abuse is a common thing these days. I think you should always stand with your child, not the other guys just for the sake of your sexual needs.
Your Poll is much smarter than your comment here. But I understand you only had right intentions so Thanks 👍
Joy @joyforlife
Ohh you saw that 🙂
That idea came from your post so it’s credit goes to you too 😉
And I can understand the worst things we can get is the judgement we receive from society. But I just said what I felt and what I’ve seen elsewhere. I want you to be happy but at the same time I want a bright future for your child too. Child feel anxious and angry to see something which don’t sound fair to them. She is more important for me and you can see that in my comment.
Hey,mother…I think like… it’s not good to have s*x doing everyday with strangers…give some time to your child…just make her happy…she is growing by looking what you doing… don’t put her into sadness…
Just start enjoying with her…
Try to hear her…
She is a small girl… don’t make her not valuable…
Giver her proper education…
And be her best friend…
And also “sex is not something that can heal your soul…at some point u will think like…yeah…there are good…but eventually it will make you unhappy…”
Have the courage to face our problems…
All the very best lady …
You are amazing…
You are still alive today …
You can raise your child in a good way!!
Ohh I see. Does your parents having s** means they don’t love or care for you ? What are these people… How do you know how much I love her ? Seriously… People are Judge Spencer
Hey i didn’t meant to be so…you love your girl so much that’s why you are tensed about these situations…
It’s my opinion…no matter how you will take…just take it as positive if you can!!
Mind of children is so soft… don’t hurt them… you are the only one who can understand them purely…
Mahek Rathod @m3
She is teen at this age. It doesn’t matter you are wrong are right, she is going to question you on every topic. Such as why you have to make me healthy food or etc. You can talk her with calmness, its her important phase too. Maybe you can express your point of view about life to her.
Thanks …
Upto you. How you deal with it.
I think capability is very needed. If you are liberal, want to go out and have sex or whatever then also certain things come with it. Such as your daughters awkard attention, and questioning.
Make a plan how-to deal with that. And then go ahead. If you don’t know that, then you have want to have all the fun of a movie theatre without any idea on how to manage the ticket. Now you’re here to get that idea.
Life’s most problems I feel are like taxes you pay. Also people in this platform are free minded, they’ll judge or say what they feel, I always see that.
They won’t ever tell you what you want to hear from them.
