After my break up I have had serious commitment and trust issues. But I slowly discovered that I was also having hard time being attached to people. So I tried this non attachment thing, where my partner and I maintain healthy boundaries and stay in our lanes but also accompany one another, and when either of us thinks it’s not beneficial enough we can end things with no questions asked.
Do you think this non-attachment thingy whatsoever is a good idea?
It’s okay I feel, after a heart break we need time to mend but as a genuine advice usually not serious relationship, don’t work because not both of the partners are not ready… in your case I suggest to take things slow and keep them limited… Don’t let it be a rebound… and incase if it becomes one don’t overthink it
Thank you so much. This means a lot. I guess I really needed to hear this. Sending love ❤️
I don’t think it’s a good idea to tag thing in that manner…you know you’ve put a tag to this ki accompany kroge but attach nhi honge… although it’s good to set boundaries and be in touch with the person you broke up cause due to some reason you can’t be in realtionship but it doesn’t means ki you stop talking…but yeah tagging a realtion like this cannot produce good outcomes this is simply like using each other…
Thanks for this perspective of not tagging it. I will consider looking it from this angle. It’s helpful indeed, thanks for writing back. Sending love ❤️
Cool !! Btw You’re reply with such a kind a positive heart to everyone…may you find happiness
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Aww thanks :)
Thank you for being so kind too 💕
I’ve been in this kind of relationship before for like 6 years. Non committed relationship is the most painful thing to be in coz end of the day one of them tend to get very attached n the other wont feel the same. And when one person decided to get into serious relationship with someone else, they will stop being there for you. And you left with nothing. Though right now your decision to remain like this seems light n easy, in future it would never be. You’ll feel unsafe at one point of your life will be afraid thinking when she/he will leave.
Thank you for sharing… this sounds like the most bittersweet aspect of this whole thing. I know that this could get complicated, and one or both of us could get hurt. I will take time and have my thoughts straight about it. Thank you so much for writing, I appreciate. Sending love ❤️
