advice for my breakup from my friend, they told me that if she is being very over possessive i should even continue being with her and just let her be. but i don’t want to breakup, i love her so so much and it’s just so annoying because this wasn’t the advice i was looking for. i am confused because we have been together for 3 years nd she means the world but she doesn’t let me talk to other girls, like legit and we have done everything together from going on a trip and paragliding to living together. do u have some advice for my breakup? i have been very sad lately and this depresses me so much. it has become very toxic and i am annoyed but also very scared to breakup with her. ig i shud just figure it out in the next few months, to see if i fall out of love with her. if i do, then maybe it wasn’t meant to be. if i don’t then maybe she is worth fighting for. please can anybody help me or give me any advice, i don’t know how to handle this situation idk what to do. A A A A A A A A A A A. kya karu pls bata do yaar, mujhse nahi ho raha yeh. i am scared to breakup bcoz what if i never find love, why is my life so sad nd fcucked up. pls somebody give me some advice for my breakup or help me in some way
KHILIT GUPTA @khilit
Respect her insecurities! Look, trust is everything if she’s being over possessive then you might have done something that you shouldn’t had . So talk to her and be faithful always!
Allen @allenindison
I agree with your words.
It you make her feel secure shr will never be someone like that talk with her
Make a mutual decision always if u see a future with her. Make her your that person that will always be your calming down person.
If you don’t want her be straight explain her
And seperate.
shikha singh @bulbul_2310
I have been in relationship with an insecure and possessive man. Tried understanding his insecure and possessive behavior was only giving me alot of pressure to get going with relationships. He was same after changing myself and giving reassurance everyday. After 5 years of constant verbal abuse and taking insecure behaviour, he decided to marry someone else.
There is nothing you can put in relationship to make other person feel secure and respectful towards you. It is within. First start loving yourself.
I know it is easy saod than done. But, it is worth it.
Aswin Shankar @aswin_b13
Grt decision
I tired everything to be with him but lots of abusive words happened between us after breakup i said to sorry through text and even i called him but he ignored .this is what my experience is ,I had put my entire time on him when his time comes he left me
In such cases as yours, the insecure one doing the same things behind your back and that’s why they think that you are doing it too.
Experience…not a fact.
Gregory @gregoryrasputin
Hey boy! You are lucky as your girl watches out over you. If you are getting hurt by this. Just imagine the other side. When you are doing things and your Gf won’t even care to ask that about. This hurts the most brother. If you have your girl right into you all others should fade.
Bro talk her and do whatever she wants with you because no one will come for your help whenever you needs them the only true love stand behind you if she feels jealous by some girls then leave that friend because your girlfriend is your priority not your friend you have to live with her so love her and try to convience her other there is so much guys who also stock your girlfriend so love her and respect her insecurity because true love is so rare in this world
grownup @humble_lion
Bruh Friends are also important.u can’t just leave ur frnds behind for love.We even have a life ,a world other then gf/bf soo let’s balance it ha…
Insecurities are for a reason. Maybe because of something that you have done or maybe because she faced betrayal in the past. Sit with her and talk to her, ask why does she feels this way? Try to understand her and make her believe that you love her and won’t go anywhere even if you may have other girls as friends.
I’m so sorry you have to deal with it, firstly everyone point of view is different so you will receive different advice from different people but what I believe is you said, I’m with her 3 years that’s really good and believe me most of the couple couldn’t maintain it to 3 months also, I can see you got some real relationship there.
And talking about your girl getting possessive it’s normal yaar, she gets jealous when you talk to other girls because she loves you and know what other girls try to do, if she doesn’t love you then she wouldn’t get possessive.
In my eyes, if your relationship is not working properly then you both need to talk to each other and say what you are problem you guys are facing and what you both can do to bring it back to the right track.
Have a great day 🫶❤️
Swati Joshi @swati_joshi
Just trust yourself and listen to your gut feeling trust me you will never regret that and you already know what you want but you are just scared dude so brace yourself up and trust me your future will be bright and full of happiness it will be hard but we have to take some decisions for our and others sake
imkaran @neat_honey
M also dipressed dude…☹️☹️
Insecurities are real, not just women, men have it too. I have been in a relationship with a guy who was very similar to me. We both had this insecurity whenever the other talked to the opposite gender. It was because we had a long distance relationship. I never had this insecurity with anyone else, only with him because I really loved him and I was scared to lose him to another girl. So I think your gf has insecurities and trust issues like me. Thankfully my ex used to understand this because he felt the same way about me. I’m sure if you talk this out with her by understanding her and not doing anything that upsets her, over time she will start understanding you too. Just know how to be patient with her, she’s not doing this in a toxic way, it’s something she has no control over.
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Make her feel secure that’s it , women need assurance give her that !
