Advice:
Do not share your secrets to anyone. We live in a society where we cannot trust anyone. If you have any problems your parents are there for the rescue.
Can’t tell them
Its better to not share to anyone. I am not telling to put yourself into pressure. But Instead being vulnerable to cope with such terrible/depressing moments through like several healthy distractions. It can be walking, listening to music, finding new hobbies… Etc
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You sure you wanna tell them
Absolutely, they will be there. But thats not the case and you feel like they are not really the person to share. You gotta keep it to yourself and let it dissolve. Whatever it is they are not gonna stay forever. Surely solutions exist. Also we should be strong <3
True. But even parents are untrust- worthy at least mine are. On top of that my friends care more about my mental health than my parents/family sooooo yeah I don’t know. And my friends don’t gossip about me but my family does. But I guess trust is different for everyone.
Yeah you are right, some friends can be very genuine and trustworthy. The world is like a place full of tragedy, you’ll never know from which person which path the tragedy comes. There is nothing wrong with sharing it with someone you love especially “friends” unless its something sensitive. In such cases parents will be there but it will not be same for all. The whole point is yourself. Making youself a shield so that no dumb idiots can mess with you. Like being calm to such problems. Letting it resolve.
To me trust is a thing that once broken it can’t be mended. Make sure you have prepared yourself for someone to tell a secret if you tell them. My best friend has never told one of my secrets, however my mom always tells my family what I tell her. I won’t tell some of my friends my secrets, but others I trust
Thats true, trust cannot be rebuilded easily. You know, u gotta be well aware of what you share. Then its just life enjoying as it is.
