Actually the point of me being here is a little weird I have really close friends I can share every detail with…but I don’t know why since few days I feel quite low and unable to share things with those people…I just feel like keeping things to myself and it’s killing me every day … Actually the main reason I don’t feel like sharing is I don’t know what is the exact reason behind this depression… I feel like I am going to loose one of my best friend because we don’t talk to each other like before …we used to talk every day but know it’s like we don’t have topics to talk. It starts with good morning and ends with good night and a lots off hmmm okk which is quite irritating…evertime I try to share anything that person responds me saying hmm nd thts it end of the conversation…
Heyy buddy
U could talk to me
Wanderer @wanderer_
Find new random activities to do together, painting, drawing, watching stupid old movies, going out, discussion on random topics
Stop doing loose talks Nd only message em for somethin that interests both of you .
I tried doing it but it doesn’t work it’s not like he ignores me but all he replies is okk …nd I’m unable to read his mind anymore… He does shares about how he feel nd even he doesn’t have any idea why he feels like that
Pragya sinha @beanbag
Just straight up talk to your friend obvi in a polite way that why they are not able to build the conversation and ~where is the spark~ . And if your friend will get offended after just asking this one stupid thing go find some new one.
He is also going through a lot of shit right now nd if I leave him at this point he will get a lot more depressed I don’t know I sometimes feel like leaving him will make him realise my worth but at what cost … putting him in a darker place just because he doesn’t feel like talking …it won’t make me happy either
Pragya sinha @beanbag
Then help him out with his problem and solution of the problem can possibly be a little distance. And sometimes you don’t really have to make everyone happy , sometimes it’s just one person and the one person can be ~you~
Thanks this conversation did helped me I really needed to hear this …I really need to concentrate on myself sometimes and it’s not wrong to not be available sometimes
