Acting silly will never make you cool when you are with your siblings .

The comparisons lol 😂

ADHD

It's fucking hard to be a elder sister 😫

Exhausted

https://nowandme.com/i-was-not-surprised-to-see-what-happened-ynYDbDd_IQVh3v-
Same person here.
So the thing is My brother is 11 and I have to say that my parents really don't know what's actually parenting , I know becs I'm  the older child I have too experienced it in my childhood like my dad used to drink and beat and abuse my mother... As I grew older I'm 19 rn so he stopped all those becs he's also getting old . But the thing is From childhood till now I have seen his most of time getting angry in small little things, His habit has always been to throw things in anger, especially when he's drunk. I still can't forget the night before my annual exam.... I know my brother is small but he doesn't understand the point, I am afraid that someday dad will do something to him or he will do something to dad because of their anger issues ... Ik dad won't change his behaviour .. but i want change my brother's behaviour.. becs if he didn't listen to me this time surely something is going to happen.... Thankfully mumma was here so she stopped my dad . Otherwise a lot was going to happen today.  I really don't want to see my brother suffer have to guide him. Becs my dad is never gonna change. 

Family

Why did my parents always support my elder sister and always blame me. They raised her like she can do whatever she wants and expect me to keep quiet and not defend myself. They spoiled her. She acts in front of everyone and manipulates them to hate me behind the curtain.
I don't know if my parents are too blinded by her manipulations or if they chose to ignore them. I honestly can tell because even if I point them out they change the topic against me. All my relatives don't know her true self. My parents raised her as a devil in disguise. They are too blinded to see me. I wish I was never born. I can't take this discrimination anymore. I just want to go away and live on my own and find someone who sees me for who I am.

i do everything in this household and they never appreciate it. I wake up early hours to clean and make breakfast for the family before I leave for school myself - I have to wake up at 5am because the first person to leave needs to leave by 5:50. I clean the house every single day alone even though there is another sibling who stays home everyday with no job or anything to do. Yet does not contribute to anything at all. 

I come home to a mess and they expect me to clean after school & before I have to leave for work after school. - even thought the one sibling could have at least spent 1hr of there time cleaning since they do not study or have a job. 

I come home to this siblings mess and my dad expects me to clean it. I’ve ask multiple times nicely if they could at least clean up after themselves. But because I’m younger my dad expects me to clean up siblings mess even though he stays home with them & does not bother to tell her. 

I stay home for study leave and when I do stay my dad decides it’s time for me to clean the house EVERYDAY while I’m home to study. 

I go out with my other siblings who do not stay at the house - for a couple hours & come home to them wanting me to do more chores that they could’ve don’t while I was gone. This happens everyday it’s like they wait for me to come to do it. 

I love to annoy my brother 

Addiction

My brother taunts me rather disrespected me when I wrote a review in improper english grammer. I didn't felt good.(am I writing now with proper Grammer) 

3am Thoughts

Hi guys! How to deal with brothers ???? They are so irritating annoyinggggg me all day

Anger Issues

What can I do for my brother who keeps screaming while playing games. It's so loud and it might affect neighbors. I don't really want to scold him because I don't want to make him feel sad or have hatred feelings. My parents didn't really take any actions as well. What can I do?


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