About two months back, my ex and I met again almost after a break of 1 year. Our dating history was not that good, sort of an on and off relationship. Things sparked a bit when we met this time and thus, without committing to something we decided to hook up. Things went bad after that. I realized I wasn’t meant for this “friends with benefits” idea and he found it suitable for him. I confronted and his reaction was to drop this and remain just friends. I wanted to talk about it and not just reach a conclusion. I didn’t get a chance though as everything was very spontaneous from his side. He got up and left as well pretending that everything was cool. Somehow I feel after this decision, he doesn’t even care about the friendship. He rarely talks and tries to even make me jealous or doesn’t acknowledge my achievements. My best friend tells me that he is not a good person and I should just move past this. But it is hard. I don’t know what suggestions would anyone give me, but I just wanted someone to know.
Hey just move on. I know it’s very hard to leave…even I’m trying to leave my bf bcz of some reasons but if u r not happy with him and if he doesn’t care about u then he’s not the one for u…just distract urself from doing some activities and u can move u as time passes by❤❤❤
I sure will try to think more about things I like and what gives me happiness…! 💛
Hey it’s okay! You’ll be fine:) And trust me this friends with your ex never works. I have been in that place before and i can surely tell that it only went downhill after the wanting to be friends part. There is someone out there for you for sure… Try to heal yourself and move on. You have this beautiful life to enjoy whatever you want and you are sad over a boy who Doesn’t care to acknowledge your feelings about the matter you are concerned about :). Life’s short to be sad. ;)
Yes, that’s true. I need to put myself first. Thank you for reading and acknowledging.
Moving on is not easy. It’s the hardest thing especially if you’re an emotional person. I was in a relationship for 5 years and when we broke up he immediately ‘moved on’ found someone new and is enjoying his life. But here I am even after 6 months still waking up thinking about him and praying for him. And THAT IS OKAY. everyone takes different time to move on. And if your best friend is telling you that he’s not a nice person then you should let it get into your head. Best friends are usually never wrong. They know us like we do and they see things that we don’t. It’s going to be hard to see him get up and leave and not care about your friendship but atleast that way you know that it’s time to start thinking more about you and less about him. Let me know if you want to talk more okay?
Yes, I guess that’s the right thing. Thanks for your words. I feel quite good now.
And more power to you. I hope we both end up in way way better position than we are in right now.
Yes I really do hope so too. And I really believe we’ll have better days. :)
