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💫 a slightly longer post 💫
I think we all know the moment when we start to realize that we have fallen in love. Being in love is nice, but what if you recognized your feelings too late?

So … Since last summer I have been very good friends with the brother of a friend. Until recently, we both spent time together every day. When we watched series or slept in the same bed, we cuddled. We’ve talked about what would happen if one of us fell in love. After that, it was always clear: We are just friends.

For some time now he has had less time for me. We also had a few minor disputes. I recently found out that he was meeting up with a friend to see if the two were a match. At first I was hurt because he didn’t tell me something so important, even though we have become such good friends.

When I drove past both of them recently, it hit me: Why is it bothering me so much? I shouldn’t be jealous, should I? I realized that I didn’t notice when I fell for him. Things I found weird at first are now the things I like most about him. After we talked about our dream dates, I wished that I could be the person who would be with him then.

Problem now: What should i do? Normally I would have no problem telling him how I feel, but he’s seeing someone right now. What if he’s already in love? On the one hand I would like to have him by my side again, on the other hand I don’t want to cause him any problems or stand in their way. After all, we want the person we love to be happy, right?

What do you think? What would be best for both of us? Would it be selfish to tell him how I feel even though he’s meeting someone right now?

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Anonymous

yeah, I do think is late, you should respect the relationship that he has at the time, jelousy is not always love, sometimes you are just sad because you can’t have the same thing, but I don’t know if that is your case. Maybe he will break up with his friend and you can tell him there or maybe you should move on. Do you think he feels the same way?
Wish you luck🌼

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