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A guy took me for granted… for 3 years and cheated on me … still i stuck to him… whenever he was alone i was there or him … he finds new girls every month and the moment they leave him he comes back to me… and i dont know how should i get out if this… i feel so unhappy and alone… and left out when does this

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Anonymous

I understand how you feel, you are worth more than that… Please do not let him do this to you…
You can find new people and talk to them… Break the ice and you’ll see the change. Don’t let him play with you… You can talk to new people. It’s not bad or wrong. I’m here if you feel alone and unhappy… I’m happy to talk with you :)

Anonymous

Trust me i do try to talk to new people so i can get my mind off him… and i am trying since two months now… he is a torture i am well aware of it… but i just fall for him

Anonymous

I see, we can talk maybe and let’s how it works out… You just need to get your mind off… Believe me… I’m sorry if I’m sounding too forward to you. Change will come if you’ll try and I’m happy to be a part of that change but ofc only if you’d like :)

Anonymous

Ofc? Sorry my lingo dictionary isnt very exhaustive :)

Anonymous

I’m sorry I meant to say Ofcourse 😅. My bad

Anonymous

Got it ofcourse!

Anonymous

Haha sure, let me know what do you think :)

Anonymous

Lol … yeahhh… let us keep this thread alive ! :)

e

My username :)

asim21

This is mine :)

asim21

How are you doing today? How was today?

e

It was fine… i am empty hollowed from inside… i feel that everyday… generally as well…

e

What brings you here … need help or you are the help ? :)

asim21

I’m sorry to hear that… Dont worry I’m here now haha… Let’s make sure you’re not hollow. Idk if I’m the help but I try my best and everyone requires help I guess haha… I’m here to meet new people and see how the journey goes :)

Wbu?

Anonymous

Juat wanted to share this and get it out of my system. I dont want to be weak again and want to be strong…

Anonymous

What do you do for living ? Or studying?

asim21

Good, you did that… You are already strong! Believe me… You’ll see it in sometime… Don’t worry :)

Anonymous

I have plans for studying but COVID stopped it but I’m working as of now… Wbu?

Anonymous

Ohhh that’s great. I am into animation :)

Anonymous

My mind is my own destruction i feel

Anonymous

That’s nice… I was confused atm when I saw that anonymous message haha… Then I saw its you… I’m Anonymous too now ;)

e

Oh my bad …

e

So sorryyy… my thumb goes
right there to switch it

Anonymous

As much as I agree… But I disagree as well coz it’s our mind and we should need to like make it understand what’s correct I know it’s difficult but once you start talking to ppl and it vibes then you’ll see a difference

e

Atm?? :P

asim21

No worries as far as it’s you haha…

asim21

Oh my bad lol… Atm - at the moment… I got used to this haha… I mean it seems easy

Anonymous

Indeeed it is … i am learning too :D

e

Again the anonymous post …

asim21

Haha no worries… I know it’s you and yeah it’s a learning… I can teach you some short forms of you’d like :P

Anonymous

Hahaha yaaaa … i know common ones … rofl … lmao … lol… so yeaahhh …

asim21

You know what is Sth or YKWIM? :p

e

You are trying to talk me and responding to my silliness… just to make me happy … hai na?

Anonymous

nnoooo… telll meeee

asim21

I’m silly too… Seriousness is good but silliness is required in life… that’s how people bie you know and yes i like it snd I’m happy to talk :)

Anonymous

I know SMH …

asim21

I don’t know what’s SMH lol

And sth- something
YKWIM- You know what i mean :)

e

Ooohh smh is shaking my head… the guy is spent time with is a mess smh

e

then there is ikr

asim21

Lol okay I’m shaking your hand haha and I know right -IKR? ;)

e

It is 1:00 Am … i am headig off to sleep … Shall we continue tomorrow? :)

asim21

I’ll be glad too… We are fine here or we can speak somewhere else if you want ofc :)

e

I am fine here… i hope thats cool for now ? :)

asim21

Yep it is, sleep well and I’m here for you and we can talk anytime you want :) take care for now!

e

Are you still there ? :)

asim21

Hey, yes I’m here :) how did you sleep?

e

Well … hope you re doing wel :) !!

asim21

I’m doing okay… What’s up? Wyd?

Anonymous

I was busy … office work… how about u?

asim21

I’m kinda free now… I’ll be busy at night as I’m in night shift work… Night owl haha

How’s the day coming so far?

Anonymous

Ohhh … i am jam packed right nowwwww… :'(

asim21

It’s okay… It’s work… I’m here for you :)
I’m not going anywhere haha :P
I hope it’s less burdened as of now… You’re doing good :)

Anonymous

I am keeping myself engaged… that’s it… the thing is when my mind is not involved anywhere I go back to that thought and it hurts me… i zone out… but I am coping up

asim21

I understand, when you’re engaged with work… You can talk with me… It will keep you attended and engaged and we’ll know about eachother more :)
Don’t worry… The change will happen but it’ll take time.

e

How sweet ! :), haha !

asim21

I know! :)

I’m sweet make sure you don’t get sugar haha… :P

Anonymous

Lol!!! 🤣🤣

asim21

Hihi, how was the day?

e

It was fine … what about you ? Guess u might be at work … rght ? :)

asim21

Good to know that, it’ll start from 9pm…

e

Ooooh!! and theb get fre by 6 am?

asim21

Yes working till 6am but I’ll be online… And those are some new words you used haha :P

asim21

Did you eat dinner?

e

Ohhh sorryyy this keyboard!!! Yes i did … how about you ?

asim21

Yes I did too…
Tired ?

Anonymous

Nah … watching a series …

asim21

Cool, which one?

asim21

Looks like someone slept haha… Sleep well

e

Heyy sorryy i slepttt!! Lol … i was watching irregulars … based on Sherlocks daughter

asim21

No worries haha, I’m glad you did… I heard about that show but haven’t watched it. Anyways how are you today?

e

I am doing well … how are you doing ?

asim21

I’m doing okay :)

How’s Work going? How are you feeling in general? It’s difficult to talk here haha…

Anonymous

Hahaha , work is fine … just too much if hassle rn. Indeed it is hard … but love to see a text pop up when i open this site :)

asim21

Good to know that… Is it only my pop up you’re looking for 🙃 JK!
Let me know if you’re comfortable speaking somewhere else as it’s getting difficult to follow up this thread haha.

Anonymous

yaaa it is pretty hard to followup (although this is the only post At my end lol)

asim21

I know right! We can talk on IG maybe… Like it would be easy to chat and we don’t have to scroll down to the thread and we’ll be able to speak anytime we’d want :)

Let me know what you think haha :)

asim21

Hey, what happened? It’s everything okay?

Anonymous

Hey, is everything okay? How are you doing?

Anonymous

I am fine… not well… have hugh fever and headache… so was sleeping all day … how are you doing? :)

Anonymous

Thanks for checking on me :)

Anonymous

Oh I’m sorry to hear that… I hope you recover… I am okay I guess… Was just thinking you didn’t reply. Which is why I asked if we can talk somewhere else where atleast I can talk to you or know you or check on you haha :)

asim21

Hey, how are doing today? Feeling better from fever? I hope you’re feeling better than yesterday

asim21

Hey, is everything okay? You are not replying. I’m listening… Let me know if something is bothering you