A guy said me a month ago that he liked me ...I said   I'm not ready for any relationship thing...so we decided to stay friends....we were on a good page for a while but idk what happened ..I cannot feel that energy with him.....it's being 7 days he didn't texted or anything (he says he busy in studies stuff and he feeling not good) but when he used not feel good back then ,still we used to talk but now the scene is different .....

I want talk but last 2 times I texted first keeping my ego aside and while having conversation we were not vibing same anymore...

Now this time what should I do ?

It really feels bad when someone make you feel so special and suddenly they escape for days

So I said him today ..that I don't feel the same way ...

Third person here.  Maybe there are different reasons. Maybe he's talking to someone else now. When the op and the guy both were vibing, he must've given her attention , but now that they both are clear with their relationship he simply can't do that. It's possible for him to move away in order to get over her. It's not always play hard to get strategy, sometimes it's about setting boundaries so that both of them don't get hurt. 

Few weeks ago he told me that he like another girl


It's simple. You both wanted different things from your bond , he wanted relationship , you wanted to be friends. So don't think too much. Let it be. 

Affirmations

I was on and off in a few relationships. What i realised is that whenever I felt loved I was healthy I took care of myself and him too. I was happiest and did all my daily routines even a workout which I usually put off for later. I know this is wrong I'm putting my value in others but again whatever is working right now so I got a wild thought what if I get into a relationship knowing it will only be for a year. If you're a guy will you be willing to get into such a thing without judging me. And this one year it will be really serious and I know i will get attached quickly so it will be hard for me but if I'm trying for a long term one. Nothing works out. Atleast if we have some deadline we will try to be happy in that I'm hoping . Okay come on throw your opinions please 

Love

Im so tired of being caught up with people with some kind of relationship baggage. I know that's rude but I always end up getting the shitty outcome. The 1st guy I dated we seemed to be having a good time I tried to communicate with him a ton and made sure to consider his feelings then all of a sudden he cut off everything and said "Oh i have feelings for my bestfriend bye now" so I just let him go live his life even though I put my heart into that relationship. Then a few years later I met another guy, I again put my heart into the relationship and all of a sudden once things were good between us he called me sweet and everything  he's just like "Oh i cant stop thinking about my ex" and now he wont even talk to me. I'm just so tired of putting in all my love just to be cut off because of an issue. Its like nobody ever just loves me for me there always has to be a "twist." Like why go this far into a relationship if you arent over your past relationships or you feel different idk ugh..

Loss

Need some Suggestion... 
I met a guy on a dating app. It was the first time used a dating app or been on a date with someone. He was polite and harmless. When we started talking he was very interested initially but after our first meet his message frequency was less then after our second meet he gave me complements like "you are photogenic" he said he want to go on third date but he cancelled at last moment. After two days he replied to my message like he got a muscle pull and he is on bed rest. Then he ghosted me. I was left heart broken because I liked him. Is this a gentleman's way to end thing. If he didn't like me in person he should have said and ended it in first date itself right ?

Relationships

Okay so.. I need you guys help... I have this boyfriend we have been together for  a month and so, when we first met(online) we used to live an hour away from each other and even tho that was a thing we would hang out online all the time like discord, movies, videogames a lot more stuff, then we hung a couple of times, everything was great. We both knew I was moving for college... but we still decided to give  a relationship a try..  now we live 2 hrs and 30 min away from each other... he works crazy hours so I understand he can't give me attention 24/7 but he just seems gone. This has been going on even before I moved away. The week before i moved he said he was working all day except for the weekend that he had asked off because of an event that he had. But then out of nowhere he was like on one of the days oh no they called me in, and when I asked he was just like oh I had off but they called me in I just found out today. I asked him if he had backed off how he felt and he still said he still wanted to try, he did start calling me baby again but that's about it. Now he barely texts me, this past day that he had off completely ignored me, no text no nothing just to say he was going with his friend. 
I really don't know what to do, I like him but I feel we had a better relationship when we were friends.. like we would spend more time together even if it was online we would still call each other and text... now not so much. A part of me wants to end it and just go back to being friends, the other part wants to stay with him... what do you guys think?
 

I'm feeling incredibly sad most of the time these days. I'll explain why and I'll start at the very beginning. I went on an exchange for 6 months from August until February and met the most amazing people. I've bonded with most of them and they feel as close as family. I've been back quite a while and I was doing fine with not being with them. Now we went on a 16 day vacation with a few people, one of them being the crush I had. I lost most of my feelings in the time of not seeing this person. When I saw him on the vacation, my feelings were all back immediately. I decided it would be best not to say anything, not to ruin our friendship, just like I had done before. After a few days I felt like he returned the same feelings, so I told him about mine. He told me he reciprocated these feelings. He was very specific about not wanting a relationship though. He still has to process some stuff that has happened in the past and doesn't want to build a relationship on him not feeling up to that. I understood. We still cuddled every day for 7 days straight. One day we even kissed very passionately and he had to stop, because he was getting a little bit too excited and he didn't want to take it further to lead me on. Even though he was very clear telling me he didn't want a relationship, I'm stilling having problems now with accepting that. He has multiple times talked about how he sees out future and that when we do get together eventually what he would do and how that would work with us living in different countries, etc. It makes me so confused about what he wants from me. He tells me he wants me to move on and not think about him like that and that I should have someone else if I would want to, but on the other hand I feel like there is this expectation he has where whenever he figures out his life and the trouble in his past I will be there waiting for him. And if that is what he wants, me waiting for him, I'm fine with that. But now I don't know and that makes me more confused and more sad. But I feel like I should know, because he has said multiple times he wants me to move on and that there is not really space in his life for me now. 

Things that also confuse me is while we were cuddling, him saying things like: "for now, you are mine and only mine." And I know he meant I was his for only that week, but that fucks with my mind. I'm not sure whether I should talk about it with him and explain that even though he told me he doesn't want a relationship I still have expectations, because of things like this that he said. 

Breakup

actually have a crush on a person who Is totally toxic but I feel that he has some story behind ,why he is being toxic but I actually gave some hints that I like him.

she/he gotta know and all of a sudden he being nice to me,

before he would not even care about me like she/he is from somewhere else and I’m from somewhere else we met online so we cant meet nly through chat so she/he wouldn’t even reply properly I use to be the one who texts she/he first would reply in one word we use to not talk much.
I mean chat .

what do you think is it that she/he started liking me that’s y texting and talking to me nicely or something else and recently she/he mentioned what he wanna do with her/him partner so in that I think she/he indirectly mentioned that she/he hate distance relationships what should I do ?? should just stop liking her/him or should I go and her/him that i liked you but u hated me.

actually he in the starting wanted to get rid off me and I don’t but from that time I hated her/him but when she/he gave me his phone number I was a little scared but slowly I started liking her/him idk why but then I gotta know that it was crush.

and I wanna say her/him how much she/he lied to me that’s y should just say all the stuff she/he did to me and say that I liked him or

what should I do should I just have that crush
or just say it and wait for the reply or
just stop liking that person and become friends (but its really hard) or
wait till that person asks that I have crush on her/him or
just say what she/he did to me but still I thought that u would change but u didn’t change atall but I liked you never liked me ??what should I do? please help me ik that it's so long but I'm stuck 



Depression

So I still like my ex and we have been texting back and forth but he left me unseen. It said he was messaging back but then nothing came. I know this is silly but do I text him or wait for him to text back. I dont want to be a bother to him and I dont want him to dislike me in any way. Do I just stop texting him? Or maybe text him. Idk anymore.

Anxiety

Hii :)
I was in a relationship with a boy for 4 months .It was good relationship.Then one day we got into fight then he blocked me for month .After that he unblocked me and texted me how I was doing and normal chat .First texted  him that we should stay friends as I don't want to loose him. Then he did not reply for 15 days.After that he said let's just friends then I changed my mind cause I realised I can't be friends with my ex and I told him again we broke up but it was mutual breakup .We both agreed that we want different thing in relationship and appologize to eachother and things ended .Then he texted me again after 10 days saying he wants to talk me over the phone ,I said cool because I think may be something urgent he wanted to tell but we talked normally he said he is missing me and wants to get back with me ,as he said he cares about me a lot and misses me and but he told we should talk to each other face to face when corona virus ended .I siad it might take one year for me to meet him then he replied he will wait.I don't know what to do I can't figure him out .Does he really love me or is he just attracted to me And one more thing as I want reliationship with future and his thought was different from mine that's y we ended things. But as he told he will wait for me should I keep my hopes up plz suggest me what should I do ? He is very confusing and I don't want to keep my hopes up .He just he will only talk to me face to face and till then we can't be in relationship.

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