A guy friend of mine proposed me at one point in our friendship. I rejected the idea. Cut to 4 months later, he has invited me to stay over at his house after a late night party that I am invited to. Something just feels off about this. He keeps making it seem like a favour to me. I can't help but think he will make a move on me, which I really don't want. He keeps saying "You are lashing out" and this seems like gaslighting. He fails to see that I will be tired after the party to hangout with him. I feel so overwhelmed by this. 

You have the power to say No. Exercise that it it makes you feel better and can save you from the undue stress.

Frustration

Well where do I start? My entire life became dark and twisted in the span of 3 years... I got married it was arranged marriage in 2019 and my husband was abusive in all forms soo I left him and applied for divorce... after that I met a childhood frnd of mine... and he promised me no matter what he will always stay and I got knto a relationship with him.. I did not trust him at first but the he introduced me to his family and frnds but then 9 months down the road v hit a rough patch... I wanted to work it through but he did not want to... and he broke up with me over a phone call on my birthday... its been 5 months and it still hurts... 
Please do not send me messages like I am strong blah blah blah..... its not bcoz of strength... I am not able to be strong....  I miss him... nd I wanted him to be my last

3am Thoughts

🤭i had a little crush on one of our secretary and too by chance ...😂 I didn't knew he was from our batch ...later knew about it ...and idk how ...but we started texting lmao ! 
......🥲sadly ...he stopped texting and so did i ...now idk i want to talk to him ..but i can't ! 🙄 Help me out guys !!!

Any tips on self healing after a healthy relationship and breakup? This hurts way more than any toxic relationships or breakups I’ve had. Knowing that it wouldn’t meant to be and that it would never work out but making it happen and finally accepting the reality of it. We’ve went our separate ways and now I’m just slowly waiting for the love to fade. He said we shouldn’t contact each other anymore so that we can heal the proper way and I know he’s right but I can’t do it. One hour I’m ok the next hour I’m balling my eyes out. This is an emotional roller coaster and I’m grieving but I don’t want to let this breakup take me down because I still have a job to do and bills to pay.

Breakup

I met a guy today for the first time. We met online. 
And in just the span of 1 hour is mom called twice asking him to be back home. I thought it's some kind of emergency so told him we can leave and he said, it's no emergency, she knows i am with a girl , so she is possesive.
Hein ? What does this mean ? I can see things working out with him , i like him. And i know he is mama' boy but this possesive comment has thrown me off gaurd. Should I be concerned?

So I did a mistake broke up like 20 days ago with a guy college and recently proposed another guy from college cause I felt we will make a great pair and he's nice but he too had a break up recently and is still not over it I am worried what he thinks about me that I am desperate or what not will there be any chances of me coming with him in a relationship as he said no for now he will see what it is in coming future ! 

Love

He said he will text me .. but from 1 week it's just silence . Is it way to get rid of me 

Anxiety

I broke up with my boyfriend last year. In the beginning i thought it was he taking me for granted and not spending time together.  After a whole year i realise that it was mixed with my insecurities.  My friends used to say that he looked a lot younger than me and you guys don't look good together.  He never liked that i told others about our relationship.  Maybe that was his way of keeping us away from judgements or hiding what we had. I have too many questions,  thoughts and no one really to share it with. I have been lonely. Feeling self conscious and stopped talking to my friends or meeting them. Just not in a happy place. I even tried to move on, couldn't even find one decent guy.  My friend tried to make me come out of all this and talk to his friend, that went horribly wrong. Just looking for others thoughts over this mess of mine

Heyyyyyy so i first of allll i know its going to sound weird but i havent completed my 10th grade yet actually i had operation when i was in school and my sir told me to do external because i had alot of absents so i leaved and than next year i was going to give external by i came in relationship with my bestfriend and i used to bunk my tuitions cause we used to meet at his place and than after a month i got to know that he was cheating on me i used to help him w his assignments and alot of things more which i dont feel like writing here i wrote this because i just wanted you to know that how madly i was in love w him and as it was my first love i know its funny but still and next month i was having my boards exam and i was so broken and i felt like there is nothing in my life ! And then my examss ughh but still in every exam all night i used to study and used to cry because i used to miss him and now i am kinda moved on but i am from muslim family and my mom and elder sister is like dont study its okay cause it doesnt matter much but i dont know if i should give exams or not ugh its getting too long i hope y’ll understand me !  

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