A guy friend of mine proposed me at one point in our friendship. I rejected the idea. Cut to 4 months later, he has invited me to stay over at his house after a late night party that I am invited to. Something just feels off about this. He keeps making it seem like a favour to me. I can’t help but think he will make a move on me, which I really don’t want. He keeps saying “You are lashing out” and this seems like gaslighting. He fails to see that I will be tired after the party to hangout with him. I feel so overwhelmed by this.
You have the power to say No. Exercise that it it makes you feel better and can save you from the undue stress.