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Anonymous

A guy asked me out on a date and I said yes but he is now giving me mixed signals.
I’m not sure if I’m just overthinking or if he is really giving mixed signals.
What should I do?

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Anonymous

But I’m not sure though.

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Okay

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Anonymous

Should I try to communicate and know his side of story first?

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Anonymous

Okayy

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Anonymous

Same as me, my anxiety is at the top most level but I think give it a try first!

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Anonymous

Exactly!!! I’ve hell lot of anxiety and even slightest change in behavior drives me crazy and then I get confused uf he is really giving me mixed signals or I’m just overreacting.

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Anonymous

Don’t worry I’m with you and at the same pace, you first ig prepare yourself for his behaviour!!

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Okayy

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Anonymous

If you really like him talk to him, put it in words that’s all! But if you feel he would surely be judgmental then start with hints! Just give it some time sometimes we think too fast than others! If it’s been really long time and you cannot talk to him as well and there are lots of mixed signals then it’s time to move on! Aana hoga tho aajayega ❤️

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Anonymous

Okayyy

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@sleeplesslylost

Basic rule: If you are getting mixed signals, never go for it.

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Anonymous

I understand but I’ve long history of anxiety and overthinking.
Maybe it’s just me and not him.
Do you think I should try talking with him first?

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If that is the case, and you feel that you are actually ovethinking this, then, yes, talk to him. Communication is always better than assumptions.
As someone who overthinks about everything a lot, I do get you.

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Anonymous

Okayy. Thank you so much.

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@sleeplesslylost

Happy to help :)
Hoping it goes well and if you feel like talking, I am right here. You got a friend in me. :)

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