2 years back I used to hook up with my neighbor who is 2 years younger than meβ¦I donβt know what was it but we continued it for 1 and half years β¦ For me he was just a rebound β¦ (he knew everything about my past ) but whenever he use to talk about other girls I used to feel very bad β¦
Now he is in a relationship with some other girl he used to like and was talking about I feel vulnerable though he is not so serious about her β¦ I donβt know how forget everything we had β¦ Now I am just a causal friend for himβ¦
I am shifted somewhere else and now we arenβt even talkingβ¦ We talk only when I make an initiative β¦ I kind miss him aleast he could talk to me as a friendβ¦
Yes it is difficult for sure, you need some introspection if you want a serious relationship with him then let him know if not continue talking to him but increase the time space between such calls gradually and talk to others friends to fill the space, in your relationship being just friends is kind of little difficult.
Hey we can talk