1. In 10th standard I was choosing science as career but i didn't bcz my parents was decision maker soo i took commerce and tbh i was doing sooo good in that..
Now still my parents are decision maker soo they decided to choose CA as a course but tbh mujhse nhi ho rha h and mene bht galat career choose kr lia h 
Usseee badi problem mein sach mein nhi jaanta ki kya krna h aage bas mein yahi sochta rehta hun and issi wajah se mene suicide karne ka bhi try kra h 

Dude u know i passed foundation in one go but in inter I am stuck from past 3 yrs and failed in 3 attempts continuously and baat yeh h kitna bhi or kitni baar bhi padu lekin aab kuch retain ho hi nhi rha

See.. if you are not able to get something and failing continuously.. that clearly indicates that you should leave that bcoz it's not made for you. And the most important thing is that you don't love what you you are doing. But u know what is making you to give the exam again and again? It's your past hardwork. Since you have cleared foundation and also did good results in school, your mind is now saying again and again that you have to do this only as u already did good in the past. But u also have to understand that if u r facing problems right now and don't love doing this, then u should find something new. There is no age limit to start. Examples are many. So my suggestion would be that leave this and give time to yourself for thinking, ask sensible questions to yourself that what you really wanna do? Otherwise after few years, suppose even if u succeed in this field but u won't enjoy then u would again regret ki baad me bhi mujhe samajh aa gaya tha but fir bhi change kyu nhi kia

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Frustration

My dad literally forced me to go for a job exam that was not related to my branch. I was reluctant at first but somehow I prepared and I cleared the first stage. 
So I thought I shouldn't waste time and prepare for the 2nd stage exam. 
So today my father told me the 2nd stage is really difficult and I know your preparing but not everyone can do that.
Like WHAT THE ACTUALL HEL! WAS THAT.  Why the hel! did you even force me to go for that exam in the first place. I literally kept aside everything and cleared it and now he was like you wont be able to pass the next stage.
Then why tf he was pressuring me to prepare for that.
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I feel so disheartened. Like now I am a grown up and I dont really need someone's validation or support or anything because nobody really was there for me even when I was young and I started  being my own supporting person. I dont need that. But I feel bad. Ofcourse I am going to prepare even the chances are slip because I don't like giving up without giving my best but I dont know whatever. I feel alone. I am sad 

I sat for medical admission test 2 times.but didn't get admission.that time was really painful for me.all my dreams were shattered into pieces.my parents went against me.neighbours started humiliating me and many..at that time I decided to change my path..I was always fasinated with drugs and medicines.i thought I should try for that and I started preparing for university exams.and luckily I got admission in an university pharmacy department.its been 1 month I am continuing my pharmacy classes.but suddenly my parents decided to admit me in a private medical college.and their logic is mbbs is the safest option for girls..it has career security..with pharmacy I have to struggle in future for better career..besides my other siblings are doctor..they r saying in future I will regret when I will see them earning well and enjoying their life..now I am very much confused..I would have agreed to admit in medical college if they had managed that before taking pharmacy..now I have planned a whole new dream with pharmacy.. suddenly Changing to mbbs is scaring me..I am very much confused what to do..should I listen to my parents decesion or I should continue pharmacy!

Career

i just wanted to ask you guys about your financial struggles because im having some major one's right now , i have a single mom who can't afford to pay my school fees as of now and the school board called us and told me to not attend school until my mom doesn't pay the fees , its been months and honestly i feel like im the only one with this situation and i just sit at home with nothing to do and its so depressing 

Mental Health

There's no clear career path....I have completed a professional course and am very much happy with that.
But my parents keep nagging me to give exams and grab a government job. Even I wanted to do that in the past and this course was just a safety net.  Although now that I've done it, I really want to take a breather and just do my best in this field. But having given hopes to my parents, I can't bring myself to say that I don't want to give exams.
Now I can't focus anywhere, be it my work or studies.
Argghhh this life shit can be frustrating. 

Since my childhood, I am not able to do what I want always done what my parents want even in my studies, what dress I wear almost everything. 
When I was in high school my dream was to become a teacher but mom being a teacher she was not supporting me to choose that profession. For my undergraduate, they forced me to choose either medical or engineering. In that, I chose civil engineering. Till now I don't know why I chose that. After my undergraduate, I worked in the same field, but I am not able to work always feel sad and stressed so my body started to react as I started to get fever continuously. So after crying and talking a lot to my parents, I decided to quit the job. During my Undergraduate, I caught my eyes on environmental engineering and I decided to do my PG on that. Actually now I am enjoying it. So I decided to continue my career in that. When I told about these they are forcing me to get a government job. I want to work in the environmental field and also not interested in desk jobs. I tried to convince them but they are making me emotionally weak. During my free time, I help others in their studies, which I like but my parents get angry when I teach someone as I am wasting time and not using that time for preparation for govt exam. I feel so stressed.
Always want to break this cocoon but their emotional blackmailing making me weak and weaker day by day. Whenever I try to express what I want they always tell me we have given you all that you want. Hearing this makes me even worse. 
Never allow doing things myself . They always keep me in their hands. When I tell them I want to go out, they tell me it's not safe and be with them only. So even doing small things nowadays like shopping, travel.... makes me nervous.
In addition to all that they are forcing me to get married which I am not ready and not interested in.

Is there any neurologist here?

Other

isn't it funny? your parents are telling you that they will support your dreams, such as your chosen course in college, but then tell you that it has no money so you should change your choice?

or when you openly tell them abt how u r feeling then they'll use that to mock you and push u to do some things. nice one there, momma...

Family

!My teacher fat shamed me!
Okey so for context I’m a tall slim girl, 5’7, with a big bum🤭
So I’m in class and we were going to see pants and needed to take our measures. My friend to my “ass” measure, allá the way around the waist and around the biggest part of your bum and mine was valid. I wrote it down on a paper and when my teacher saw it she goes crazy. Screaming that I did it wrong it could never be that long and that we didn’t listen to her instructions etc. I was pissed like what. So we explained to her that we did it right and she was like again it’s to big bla bla, meaning that we don’t have anybody that big in our class. Like what.
And she said that it could never be right and I was getting offended because I know we did it right. The teacher takes my measurements again and it was ofc right and she was again like it must be wrong bla bla and that she had just once in her life had a student with that measurement, laughing (meaning that the student prob was huge). She was like slicing and being sarcastic saying “oh so now you’re going to be an XL haha”  then she took out the like papers to cut out your size and she took the biggest one and said inferir of the whole class that the big one should be mine. She said a lot of conserning things and many people in the class reacted to that and I was so darn close to bawling my eyes out they teared up and my friend supported me😘 
Is it just me or did the teacher do wrong?

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